The Painful Secret to Unlocking Influence and Communication
Stacey Hanke shares why introverts must face the discomfort of recording themselves to build confidence, trust, and authentic influence.
Most introverts struggle to be heard—not because they lack ideas, but because their communication doesn’t land. Hall of Fame speaker Stacey Hanke reveals the painful but transformative practice that changes everything: recording yourself.
In this conversation, Stacey shares her journey from a Wisconsin farm to the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame, why “Monday-to-Monday” consistency matters more than charisma, and how playback is the ultimate truth-teller for influence. She explains how introverts can overcome the cringe of hearing their own voice, define their personal brand, and build trust in every interaction.
If you’ve ever wondered how to be taken more seriously at work, how to communicate with clarity instead of self-doubt, or how to use quiet leadership to influence others authentically, this episode is for you.
What We Cover
Stacey’s farm upbringing and the lesson of Monday-to-Monday consistency
The voiceover job that showed her the gap between how we feel and how others perceive us
Why recording yourself is the fastest way for introverts to build communication confidence
How consistency + authenticity = trust in leadership and influence
Stacey’s three-step feedback process to improve communication at home and work
Practical ways to create deeper connection and clarity in every conversation
📌 Find Out More About Stacey Hanke
Website: staceyhankeinc.com
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/staceyhanke
Instagram: @staceyhankeinc